Question #9

[fbhjr]

This is in answer to the frozendoll meme I started earlier.

#9) Your sexuality
I am a male who is attracted to females.
I’m sorry that some people consider that boring.  But, it is the way it is.

I will say that it does look like I have some non-standard tastes.
I’m not big on porn.  I have nothing against it either.  It just doesn’t
hold much interest for me.
I am in no way claiming that if there are photos of naked women around I
close my eyes or turn away.
I just don’t think it is worth spending time looking for them, and
certainly not worth buying them.
I get to see my wife without clothes fairly often.  That’s enough for me.

I like strip clubs even less.  Again, I’ve got nothing against seeing women without
clothes.  But, I really can’t stand someone pretending to be nice to me for
money.  And, that is what those clubs are to me.

I’m also not a huge fan of women so skinny I can see their bones sticking
out of their skin.  But, based on the representation in media, I seem to be
in the minority about that.
I do find women in general attractive.  And there are very few women where
there isn’t at least something I find attractive about them.  But, the
bones sticking out thing is one of the things that will do it.

So, boring or not, I’m happy to be together with my wife.  Don’t want or
need more.

I will also say that I’ve known a lot of people with other preferences.  I
have very strong feelings on things being consensual and fully informed,
but other than that I don’t care.  I’ve got no desire for anyone to tell me
what I should do and have no desire to tell anyone else.

Comments

[cosmicirony.livejournal.com]

You are a brave man to answer such a question!

[phoenixisrisen.livejournal.com]

wow.

If you were single, I'd be in love. As you are happily married? I'm just a wee bit jealous of your lucky wife. I can't find anyone even similar.
You're not boring.

[fbhjr.livejournal.com]

Thank you, that's very kind of you to say.