The sun is out so I am not

Mar. 2nd, 2026 08:00 am
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I'm using the sun to cancel swimming today. The rest of the week will be rainy and perfect. So today I'll go to Safeway instead of swimming. Sure, I could do both, but why?

Harriet wanted a fancy color letterhead for the Committee stuff. I had made a very simple one and used it a lot but she wanted more/different. Fine. Yesterday I had Google Doc's gemini gin me up some but I was asking the wrong questions the wrong way and it turned into a thing and I abandoned ship. This morning, I did it correctly and got something good quickly. If Harriet doesn't like it, she can do it herself (hahahaha right).

I have a week to work up the agenda from the notes she gave me Friday. It will take maybe 10 minutes. I should just get it done today. Ok. I will.

I still don't have my tax return. I finally sent a note to the person who contacted me last and asked if they were waiting for anything from me. Which, of course they aren't but I thought that was nicer than Where The Fuck Is My Damn Return!! There is still 6 weeks before it's due but why wait?

Biggie goes back to the vet on Wednesday. I'm getting pretty weary of this drill but I'm not sure what, if anything, I can do to end it. Maybe there will be a better answer this tim

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Monday Update 3-2-26

Mar. 2nd, 2026 12:04 am
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These are some posts from the later part of last week in case you missed them:
Clothes
National Crafting Month Bingo Card 3-1-26
Birdfeeding
Emotional Neglect
Today's Adventures
Bingo
Books
Food
Birdfeeding
New Year's Resolutions Check In
Philosophical Questions: Government
Books
Space Exploration
Moment of Silence: Neil Sedaka
Pinetree Garden Seeds Order
Follow Friday 2-20-26: Active Communities on Dreamwidth Winter 2025-2026 J-Z
Birdfeeding
Recipe: African Spice Cookies
Photos: Water Garden
Photos: Worm Bin
Photos: House Yard
Crafts
Vocabulary: Proforestation
Birdfeeding
Willow Cuttings
Community Thursdays
Vocabulary: Bossage
Linguistics
Birdfeeding
Cuddle Party

Safety has 50 comments. Food has 53 comments. Wildlife has 40 comments. Food has 67 comments. Robotics has 147 comments.


There will be a Poetry Fishbowl on Tuesday, March 3 with a theme of "World Cuisine." I hope to see you then!


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[community profile] marchmetamatterschallenge is running this month. See my tracking post and the first check-in post.


"The Struggle Against Overwhelming Odds" belongs to Not Quite Kansas and needs $34.50 to be complete. Raymond and Gideon get attacked on the way home from research.


The weather has been warmish here, though it got colder today. Yesterday it rained a bit. Seen at the birdfeeders this week: a large flock of sparrows, several starlings, a pair of house finches courting plus an extra male, two male cardinals, a mourning dove, and a fox squirrel. I saw a downy woodpecker in the trees. Red-winged blackbirds have been singing overhead. Honeybees are out, and finally found the flowers. Currently blooming: crocuses, snowdrops.

Clothes

Mar. 1st, 2026 10:28 pm
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Donating clothes to charity has an unfortunate dark side

Here’s what actually happens when you donate clothes. First, they go to charity shops and collectors who sort through everything. The nicest pieces might be sold at the local thrift store.

But there’s a catch: these organizations receive far more clothing than they can sell. We’re talking about mountains of fabric that no one locally wants to buy.

So what happens to the rest? Some items are thrown away. But a huge portion gets packed into bales and shipped overseas.



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This post covers the weekend.

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FRIDAY


I was awake early. Coffee and breakfast. Finished Richmond Foodie Finds and made big progress on Louisville Foodie Finds. I realized that I haven't done either DC or Boston, which are both 3-week sits and HUGE foodie cities, so I REALLY need to catch up!!

That took a significant portion of the morning. Jameson texted, angry because apparently the contractors who tore the house apart yesterday just-now-this-morning opened the faux wood flooring to find that it was all damaged (I don't know what type of damage we're talking about.) So, now they have to delay until tomorrow. Why is it ALWAYS like this with contractors, I wanna know. It happened with our toilets, the sinks, the AC unit, sealing our pool deck....everything! It's very frustrating! I understand that people are human but when it's EVERY contractor that you work with...well, the work needs to be done so they've just got you in a chokehold I guess, but UGH.

In fairness, we don't know yet whether this will result in more charges, but it does mean that Jameson has to live in a construction zone with no furniture and lots of dust everywhere for another full day.

After Foodie Finds I tried to do a casual run-through of my middle school/high school-aged "Fun Jobs In Music" PowerPoint. The camera kept crashing, and some of the slides didn't look right, so that turned into more editing. By the time I'd gotten it mostly-fixed it was lunchtime. Foodie Find time!

On the recommendation of ratphooey, I walked to Alihan's Coffee and Breakfast (they have a dinner restaurant too right across the street.) It was a cozy little Turkish cafe. I was quickly seated and order taken, and while I waited all I heard around me was people exclaiming about how good the food was!

I got the menemen: a Turkish dish very similar to shakshuka except the eggs are scrambled into the sauce to create a different texture.
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The sauce is a lovely savory tomato with green peppers, onion, herbs, and spices. It comes with a loaf of hot steaming Turkish bread for scooping and dipping. You can also add cheese or meat but I chose to try it OG. Close-up to show texture:
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My goodness it was delicious! Hearty and warm, the perfect thing for a cold winter day. Thank you for this rec, ratphooey! I couldn't stand the thought of leftovers so ate the whole dish (I did leave half the bread.) Yum! Typically after a meal like that I'd go for a walk, but it was a bit cold and I wanted to time out my "kiddie" masterclass so went back to the hotel room for that first. I still didn't really get a good sense of timing but am working out what I will say, so it was a good use of time anyway.

Then I did go for a walk, nowhere in particular, just wandered around to be in the sun. I found two small parks, one of which seemed to have no name and had a cool spiraly path pattern:
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...and the other was I think called Melon Square but it was locked and gated. It didn't matter. I just wanted some fresh air. Originally I'd planned to go thrifting, but the idea of spending an hour in a dingy store on such a nice sunny day was off-putting :p No pictures because I was just BEING, here, now.

Back at the hotel I typed up this post and watched some Owl House and part of Mulan (was just in the mood for it). Dinner and walking to the theater.

It was a bit of a chaotic show...there was some issue with one of the keyboard's sampling software that seemed to cause it to be always slightly ahead of what we were playing? It made me feel dizzy trying to play along with it! They swapped out the entire keyboard during intermission so the second half was fine. And Connor (Key 1) was conducting because his GIGANTIC family was here!! They basically bum-rushed him before, between, and after the show lol. Showering him with hugs and praise, someone even brought him a bouquet. It was both heartwarming to see, and also pity-inducing because he kept having to say, "I've got to go now!" and "Guys, I've got to do my job now!", and I TOTALLY know how that feels, to have to explain that you are at work right now and kind of have to do your job, but your family just doesn't quite get it. Regardless, it was a decent show amid the chaos and his family seemed lovely :)

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SATURDAY


I was up early to do a second load of laundry. Not something I'd normally do but it's cheap here so why not.
Then coordinating a bit with Jameson. The floor guys are back at work, hopefully with actual non-damaged floor pieces now, and expect to be done or mostly done by tonight. The problem is that with the new flooring, the toilets will have to be readjusted. So it will be my job to call the plumber and arrange/pay for that. I don't mind at all, I want to help and am annoyed that I can't be there right now to provide support.

The rest of my morning was breakfast, Foodie Finds, and another attempt at timing out the kiddie masterclass.
The matinee went well, I thought we played really well and the audience was great. No notes!

As we finished up, Jameson sent me a video and pictures of the new flooring, which is now complete! They did the entryway, living room, dining room, kitchen, and bathrooms. The bedrooms and studio are still carpeted for now.

Before and After of the living room:
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Before and after of the master bath:
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He took pics of the kitchen too but they weren't side-by-sides like this. Just imagine that pinkish tile replaced by the faux wood and you get the idea :p I think it looks fantastic, and he loves it too! It's going to be SO much easier to clean, and looks loads nicer than the stained old off-white carpet and cracked pink tile. I don't yet know what it's cost us but am VERY grateful that Jameson did this for us!

One thing that Jameson has asked me to handle is calling a plumber, because now the toilet flanges are too high for the new flooring and the toilets are wobbly. I called right away and they should hopefully show up on Monday. I cannot WAIT to see the new floor in person! And acoustically it will be a lot louder in the house because the carpet is gone, that will take some getting used to!

Anyway, between shows I marched back to the hotel for dinner. The Red Bucket fundraising event is about to start again, so the cast stayed at the theater to sign programs and posters to sell. They were given pizza and it was offered to us too, but I thought they should have first crack at it since they're doing the work. Made myself a simple dinner, then walked back over early to scavenge the leftover pizza. There was plenty left :)

Josh (Key 2) conducted the evening show and did a great job. I played well myself by my own standards, with THREE mistakes that I didn't like (yes sometimes I keep score against myself. As awful as that sounds it can be helpful, because musicians have a muscle memory for mistakes too which can cause you to repeat the same mistakes the next night!! Sometimes it's good to just make a note so your body doesn't unconsciously do it again!)

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SUNDAY


The temp dropped about 15 degrees overnight. I am sad about it, but when we get to Richmond it's supposed to be in the 60s! (15.5's!) I am REALLY hoping to get out and about. Cold has been a big deterrent for exploring.

Typical morning of coffee + breakfast, working on DC Foodie Finds now, and the starting stages of packing my suitcase. I did a better run-through of Kiddie Masterclass...this one is shorter, usually between 40-45 minutes, but it is interactive and I expect that the kids will pelt me with questions and this will add at least 15 minutes to the session.

Lunch and walking to the theater. The matinee was good, Josh was conducting again but it turns out he's got a week off and won't be with us at all in Richmond! We'll have Leslie (Keyboard sub who has played with us several times now) for that whole sit.

Between shows I scooted back to the hotel and enjoyed some salmon jerky for a snack and some hot tea, and watched some Owl House. Dinner on Sundays is always scraping together whatever is left in the fridge: Today that's half a bagel, some tofu, pistachios, and 1/4 of a Sumo orange.

The evening show featured a wonderful audience, and we all played really well too :) 
One of Jameson's cousins was there but she was way up in the nosebleeds. Still, she managed to make it to the pit for a quick hello at intermission. When the show was over I did the usual thing of packing up quickly and hightailing it out of there. Tomorrow we have something like a 6.5 hour bus ride to Richmond, VA. There's no crazy weather this time so I am looking forward to a hopefully relaxing ride. Thus ends our time in Pennsylvania. 

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Monday:
A long bus ride to Richmond, VA. There is one stop planned I believe. Settling in and then a Zoom sound check with Full Blown Trombone Studio for the masterclass on Saturday.

Tuesday: Opening day in Richmond. I don't think I've played this theater before so I am looking forward to a new venue!

March Meta Matters

Mar. 1st, 2026 06:09 pm
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The March Meta Matters challenge is now active over on [community profile] marchmetamatterschallenge. See the first check-in post here for introductions. Read the FAQ list, as there may have been some changes from previous years. See my entries from 2023, 2024, and 2025. Here are my How To list and my Meta list from 2024.

This challenge involves locating and copying over meta you've created to a second site in order to ensure its preservation. The fest recommends SquidgeWorld. There will be some prompts for creating new meta. Participants can post their goals for saving old meta and/or creating new meta. You can also collect, recommend, and save meta created by other people if it's not something you make yourself or yours is already up to date and saved.

Some canon-specific or author-specific websites have a section especially for meta about their fandom(s) to help new fans learn the canon(s), explore fandom in general, and to inspire fanworks. In particular, it used to be common for people to make fanifestos about a canon, its ships, major fanworks, etc. as guides to newcomers in hopes of growing the fandom; reviving this custom would be very helpful. Here on Dreamwidth, check out [community profile] shipmanifestos. Another great type of meta is reviews; see communities such as [community profile] books and [community profile] book_love for those. If you know of more such resources, March is a good time to post about them so more folks can find them and make sure that meta is backed up.

An increasing issue of archiving is the decline of archival websites. Ghost barely works anymore. The Archive.fo cluster is iffy at best, and when one of its sites glitches, you can't even use your old links anymore. That was the site that used to have the best ability to archive almost anything, except PDF files. Wayback, formerly the most reliable, and the only one I found that would safe PDFs, has become increasingly slow and prone to outages. It never saved quite as wide a range as Archive.fo but now saves a lot less. It's maddening. Because every page that can't be archived is work that will be wasted when linkrot eventually kills the original.

On the bright side, Dreamwidth remains a great place to crosspost your content from other platforms as a form of archiving by duplication. This is increasingly a good idea at a time when many platforms are collapsing due to misbehavior, locking everything to members only, or disappearing altogether. [community profile] goals_on_dw has a post for Full Content on Dreamwidth if this is your approach to sharing and archiving your work.


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Grounded in the Now

Mar. 1st, 2026 08:23 pm
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Gracie got me up at 7:30 AM. I guess that I should be grateful for the extra 30 minutes.

Lily is so pretty and delicate. I love looking at her. Appearances can be deceiving though; she’ll smack Oliver, who usually deserves it.

Gracie doesn’t want to come in. At least, I got Bella in.

Booked a hair appointment. Ordered another stock.

I'm feeling like staying home today, but I have stuff on Facebook Marketplace to buy. I'll see how I feel after my nap and shower. The clock is a long drive away, but the nail gun is local.

Got Gracie in with the aid of a munchie bone. Now she’s eating Bella’s food. That’s okay; it’s the same food.

Napped. Oliver Snugglebug is snuggling. Had lunch. I think that I want another nap.

Gracie likes to nuzzle my ear for reasons known only to her.

Napped. I’m in the kitchen trying to wake up. Then a shower. I’ve decided that I’m going to stay in and work on the bathroom.

Showered. I’m wearing a pants and sweatshirt set that I bought a while ago. It’s like sweats but a thinner and nicer fabric.

Lily is parading around in my face, purring. (The cat food dishes are soaking.) My pets keep me grounded in the now.

Reading news on Iran. Sigh. On a happier note, the BBC had an article about Madeira, to which I’d like to go.

Hmm. Snow tonight.

You know that you’re getting old when you don’t recognize half the actors’ names in the Actors Awards.

Did a little work on the bathroom. Found a gazillon socks. But I want to get to bed early.
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Here is my card for the National Crafting Month Bingo fest over in [community profile] allbingo. The fest runs from March 1-30. (See all my 2026 bingo cards.)

If you'd like to sponsor a particular square, especially if you have an idea for what character, series, or situation it would fit -- talk to me and we'll work something out. I've had a few requests for this and the results have been awesome so far. This is a good opportunity for those of you with favorites that don't always mesh well with the themes of my monthly projects. I may still post some of the fills for free, because I'm using this to attract new readers; but if it brings in money, that means I can do more of it. That's part of why I'm crossing some of the bingo prompts with other projects, such as the Poetry Fishbowl.

Underlined prompts have been filled.


NATIONAL CRAFTING MONTH BINGO CARD

SmudgesInk PensCrochetingTanglesFood
Mended ClothesThreadTimeStoneWoodworking
ArtisanTensionWILD CARDYarnColors
WritingUpcyclingSewingTapeGarden Crafts
Rag RugsLacking StorageSmall SpacesRibbonPoetry



Here is my entry for the National Crafting Month Meet and Greet post...

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Birdfeeding

Mar. 1st, 2026 02:23 pm
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Today is cloudy and chilly. It rained yesterday afternoon and evening.

I fed the birds. I've seen a few sparrows.

I put out water for the birds.

EDIT 3/1/26 -- I pulled dead stems from some containers in the old picnic table garden and the new picnic table garden.

EDIT 3/1/26 -- We hauled the 5 new rocks to the purple-and-white garden. We hauled the huge bag of potting mix into the foyer.

EDIT 3/1/26 -- I did a bit of work around the patio.

I've seen a large flock of sparrows, a male cardinal, and a starling. I heard a squirrel barking in the trees but didn't see it.

EDIT 3/1/26 -- I dug up some snowdrops from the parking lot and moved them to the log garden and the purple-and-white garden. There are still a lot left.

EDIT 3/1/26 -- I dug up some snowdrops from the parking lot and moved them to the savanna.

I saw a woodpecker drumming high in a tree, probably a downy woodpecker.

EDIT 3/1/26 -- I did more work around the patio.

I've seen a squirrel in the trees.

I am done for the night.

The Jims Reports BUT first!

Feb. 28th, 2026 11:00 am
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Hot Uncrustables News!!! Toaster toasting is good BUT Air frying (with a touch of butter on both sides) is AMAZING!!!!! I mean it. So good.

Now the Jims.

Jim Down the Hall. The birthday party was fine. The cake was a fail. Gail (his girlfriend) is sweet but she is no baker. Turns out the icing was the key and she couldn't get it so she slapped on German Chocolate Cake icing which has coconut which is evil. So I didn't have to eat a bit of icing and only ate the cake part which was good but not the one his daughter made last year.

The hit was the gift his son gave him. It's the coolest. It's a giant book (like 24"x14") of the front page of the Washington Post on his birthday for every one of his 90 years. It's fascinating. And a true genius gift for an old person.

Jim Across the Hall. As I predicted. He threw the Tighty Whities out. Our trash room has two chutes - one for garbage and one for paper recycling. And a milk crate for bottles. He has, for a long time, just dumped whatever he wanted to get rid of into the milk crate - chip bags, half eat hambuger, unfinished salad, whatever. It spills out onto the floor. I told the Health Services direct several times that this presents a hazard for those on our floor. Joan is going to slip on a tomato slice and that will be the end of her. I used to clean it up. Noelle used to clean it up. We all decided not to do that any more. Timber Ridge needs to take responsibility for the problem. Jim is not going to change except get worse. Yesterday afternoon, this is what I found in the milk crate.

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I sent the photo to health services and suggested they tell his family that having shit delivered to him is useless as it will get tossed. I suspect it's going to have to get way worse before anyone does anything. I also suspect that his family is not stepping up to the problem but that's pure speculation. I just hope Timber Ridge does not let it go on until someone gets hurt.

Who does not love a good line chart? I sure do. I asked Gemini today if there wasn't some easy, simple website that would take my weight data from Wyze (or Fitbit since Fitbit reads Wyze) and slap it into a website for easy tracking. Gemini game me a list of websites - with no links which drives me nuts. Also the first three were no longer available - including Fitbit's own dashboard. But, down at the bottom was this one labeled as 'simple'. TrendWeight. Some dude set it up for himself but made it pretty damn robust and still very simple. And it has a share URL for you...

When I'm using a new app, I generally pay if pay is an option. I want the ads to go away and I want to support the developer. BUT if it's more than $5, I think about it long and hard and often maybe even delete the app and don't use it at all.

This TrendWeight thing was so clever, I found myself venmoing the dude $10 without blinking an eye even though his page about paying clearly says in a couple of different ways that he does not need or want the money. It's not the money, it's the thank you with teeth.

I had a lovely swim today but I hit a batch of my music that needs to be deleted. I think it's from when I was on a Beats Per Minute kick. I'm off that kick. I'll swap it out today.

In fact, I think I'll do it now.

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Emotional Neglect

Mar. 1st, 2026 01:48 am
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[personal profile] cosmolinguist wrote a long, detailed discussion of emotional neglect that I suspect will resonate with many of my readers. 

Today's Adventures

Feb. 28th, 2026 11:27 pm
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Today we went out shopping.

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Bingo

Feb. 28th, 2026 11:13 pm
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I made blackout on my 2-1-26 card for the Valentines Bingo fest! \o/

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Daily Life Meanders On

Feb. 28th, 2026 08:38 pm
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Lily's affection is a little self-serving. She is very lovey-dovey when she wants food. Oliver, on the other hand, likes snuggles.

Woke up at 9:30 AM.

I bought a Black and Decker drill on Amazon plus screwdriver bits. I also signed up for an Udemy course on using a drill. Might as well learn to use it right!

The dogs don’t want to come in. Sigh. I really want to take a nap.

I’ve decided that I want “Time to Say Goodbye” played at my memorial service. (I’ve been planning it and will put instructions in my NokBox.) That song has been haunting me since the Olympics. And it has Italian in it!

Finally got the dogs in and fed us all. Nap time. Gracie: Bark bark bark bark. (Cat cat cat cat!) Me: Gracie, yes I know. Shut up!

Bella likes the larger Milkbones. I was leaving the box open for her to get them at will, but she’s eating too many of them. I need to stash them away. Somewhere. It’s a big box.

Hmm. I’m looking at Grand Prairie Friends for volunteering. But I need to wait and see if I hear back from the Humane Society and Park District before applying for something else.

Ate lunch. AccuWeather says that rain will start in two minutes. I want another nap. Overslept my nap.

I’m in shock over the strikes on Iran. We’ve messed with Iran before, and that didn’t go well, so let’s do it again! Plus, what happened with consulting with Congress? We already know that Trump thinks that he can do whatever whenever, but this is the most serious thing yet. (I had to dig for my outrage though because I mostly feel numb. My mom would be screaming though.)

Fed us all. Daily life meanders on. I want to go to bed early.

Books

Feb. 28th, 2026 08:13 pm
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March's book is The Hollow Places by T. Kingfisher over at [community profile] bookclub_dw.

Food

Feb. 28th, 2026 03:19 pm
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People want to avoid ultra-processed foods. But experts struggle to define them

The American diet is killing us. On that point, public health experts largely agree.

And in recent years, people who want to make Americans healthier — across the ideological spectrum — are targeting ultra-processed foods, which make up the majority of what Americans eat.


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Birdfeeding

Feb. 28th, 2026 03:05 pm
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Today is partly sunny and mild.

I fed the birds. I've seen a flock of sparrows.

I put out water for the birds.

EDIT 2/28/26 -- I cut and labeled four more water jugs. These are for flower mixes: Part-Shade Wildflowers, Edible Flowers, Fragrant Flowers, and 20th Anniversary Prairie Wildflowers. I skipped the Monarch Mix because that includes a bunch of nectar annuals like zinnias and cosmos which prefer warmer weather; I may make a jug for this later in spring.

EDIT 2/28/26 -- I sowed and taped the jugs.

EDIT 2/28/26 -- I carried the jugs to the parking lot and secured them with salvaged string.

The honeybees are out in force today. They are investigating everything to see if it is a flower. I am not a flower, but at least they finally found the actual flowers. In addition to the lavender crocus, there are now two yellow ones by the log garden and a white one in the rain garden. Many of the snowdrops are open too. :D Yay flowers!

EDIT 2/28/26 -- I dug up several clumps of volunteer daffodils that had seeded themselves into the parking lot, and transplanted them all around the house yard to go under various trees where they will be safer. I still need to move a lot of snowdrops, though.

I've seen a male cardinal. I've heard the red-winged blackbirds singing, but haven't seen them.

EDIT 2/28/26 -- I did a bit of work around the patio.

I saw a pair of house finches courting plus an extra male.

I am done for the night.

I'm just not that nice

Feb. 28th, 2026 09:07 am
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My tolerance for a wide variety of personalities is really low. I just do not like that many people and the ones I don't like, I really really really don't like. There are a few, on the cusp, but not many and a few extenuating circumstances, but not many. I am just not a loving, accepting person.

Dinner with Harriet was not painful but sure was not enjoyable (except the shrimp was very good). But, I am understanding the rhythm of her annoyances. When she disagrees with something, she pretends she doesn't understand. She added 3 items to the agenda which were covered absolutely and completely at the last meeting. It's just that she does not approve of the decision. Get over it, old lady. But, she had a lovely time and wants to do dinner more often. Her sister is moving here soon, so hopefully, that will prevent many more dinners.

The volleyball people who annoy me, really worked on me this morning. I only said Shut The Fuck Up and Get Out Of The Pool Now, in my head.

Last night, Jim Across The Hall came over with the contents of the package he had received. He did not know what it was for or what to do with it. It was a package of 12 new Hanes Tighty Whities. This morning, he came over with the same package and we had the same conversation. I'm pretty sure he's going to throw them away. "I don't know what they are for!"

Today is the other Jim's birthday and there will be cake at Elbow Coffee. It's special cake - we had it last year - and it's delicious. So I'm looking forward to that.

Then, my plan is to go pick up lunch from downstairs and come back up here and shut the door. Probably I'll get another tighty whities showing but I'm ok with that. I'm done with everyone else.

Love, the Mean Old Bitch in 3402.

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Feb. 27th, 2026 08:42 pm
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Dad woke up yesterday and they took out the breathing tube, Yay. Coming out of the anesthesia was rough. AS he woke he was in huge amounts of pain so they gave him a lot of pain meds. He was not making sense and we could not understand him. It was hard to see. He did try to crack a few jokes so that made me feel better.

They ended up cutting a 4 inch section of sternum, making a 4 inch incision under her heart, cut out 4 inches off a rib so the pump can fit, and then stuffed a 3 ft extension cord in his abdomen with a hole in his belly for it to come out. The nurses say he will be in pain for a while.

told my sister that I wanted to leave at 4 PM. I was going to take the train home. I want Dad to sleep with the pain meds. The medical staff would check for all the things that need checking to make sure he was neurologically okay. She and her partner said they would go at the same time and would drive me home. I offered a salad with shrimp and chicken for dinner. It took an hour to get back to my town, but they wanted to stop at the market. Okay. Then they spent 2 hour in the store. We didn't get back home until 7 and I had to do dinner. They did not leave until 8:30.

I told them I was visiting Dad for about an hour today and then going home. I have house things that I can't do if I am here and if I have people at the house. I need to warn all the bed linens for the guest bed for my sister, pay my Dad's bills and dig out the trash barrels and all sorts of crap. This is not a vacation for me. I need separate time and not be a host. I can't keep taking care of their needs and I am run into the ground with only 3 hours sleep a night.

New Year's Resolutions Check In

Feb. 28th, 2026 01:22 am
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We made it to the end of February! \o/ If you have completed any of your short-term goals or subgoals, and/or you're still chugging away at your ongoing goals, then pat yourself on the back. You worked hard for that. About 95% of New Year's resolutions crash and burn before the end of January. If you're still going, you have beaten the odds!

I'm continuing to track goals at the end of each month. So far it seems to be helping, so that's encouraging. I'm looking at my goal list more often and trying to keep ticking off more of them.


These are the previous check in posts:
New Year's Resolutions Check In January 9
New Year's Resolutions Check In January 16
New Year's Resolutions Check In January 23
New Year's Resolutions Check In January 30

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Philosophical Questions: Government

Feb. 28th, 2026 12:04 am
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People have expressed interest in deep topics, so this list focuses on philosophical questions.

In an ideal government, what should a good citizen provide to their government and what should that government provide that good citizen?


A good citizen should provide respect as earned, a reasonable share of taxes, contribution to society, well-informed opinions on public matters, and civic participation such as voting.

A good government should provide survival needs or the means to meet them, responsible spending of taxes on public goods, respectable laws, honorable leaders, and the ability to do things at larger scale than individuals could do alone.  And not meddle in things that are none of its business.




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