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Jun. 29th, 2025 10:51 am
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Celebrating Another Trip Around The Sun.

I'm meeting Mallory's Camera for lunch today in Edinboro. Exciting. And a little scary (meeting someone new in real life - social anxiety is kicking in...). But I've always felt a genuineness radiating from her so it should be good once I get there and see her in person.

I dreamed last night that I was showing a revered teacher some of my old sketchbooks. They were really good, and very intricate. Some of it I could hardly believe was mine because was so good - was it really mine? I kept thumbing through them and they gradually changed into web pages and things I could click on and see more. It was time to go home and I had a dog that started out as Andy (a dog who doesn't listen very well) who changed into a dog named Laddie (a very well trained German Shepherd dog belonging to my childhood neighbor) and we were going home on a path through beautiful manicured gardens. Laddie was very good about following me and not touching the flowers lining the path. I was relieved.

My Bluesky posts

Jun. 28th, 2025 02:20 pm
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Posted by Matthew McQuilkin

something I am grateful for today

Jun. 29th, 2025 08:58 am
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waking to a cool-comfy house [it won't stay that way long today....]

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Jun. 29th, 2025 01:53 pm
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So I was keeping an eye on the new super-mouse for when it would be in stock. It was estimated to be in stock by the 30th, but that date has been moving around quite a bit, so I was checking it daily.

Two days ago, it was in stock. They had 25 of them. I ordered one immediately. (Parcel tracking info says I can expect it tomorrow.)

Because I was curious, I checked it again today. All gone. Not just 'out of stock, expecting more at this date' gone. It's gone!

Good thing I jumped on it as soon as I had the opportunity, because clearly it wasn't just me.


In other quite closely related news, the new computer is ready for me to move into, except for the tiny detail of my monitor being old and it turned out that an adapter was necessary because the cables are obsolete. Luckily Husband was able to source one as click and collect which he has just gone to pick up, and it's a very cheap item as well. Delayed the process by a few hours, though.

I do have plans to upgrade the monitor as well, but I don't want to do so yet. Come winter when we will likely begin the process of redecorating my room, there is also going to be some changes to the furniture, which means I might have room for a 2 monitor situation. I see little need to start replacing it until we know whether this is in fact the case, because the only thing wrong with the current one is a tendency to sometimes turn itself off completely instead of remaining on standby. This is mysterious and slightly inconvenient, but hardly a huge problem. Especially considering it's been in daily use for 15 years.

Allbingo and Crowdfunding

Jun. 29th, 2025 04:16 am
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[community profile] allbingo provides a space for creative people to share their work, using bingo cards for inspiration.

[community profile] crowdfunding is a community for creators, patrons, and fans of cyberfunded creativity.

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Week notes: June 23-29 2005

Jun. 29th, 2025 09:21 am
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Teaching:

Nothing! School's out, and my creative writing workshop series is done. Yay!

Learning:

Didn't do any DuoLingo this week, and didn't attend any workshops or anything either.

Listening:

Nothing really.

Reading:

After a brief pause, I'm back to The Raven Cycle. Book 3! I really love these books. Honestly, I'm kind of whatever about the actual plot, and I'm not even head over heels about the characters, but I really enjoy the world and atmosphere Stiefvater has created here. Plus, I think her writing is just really good "at the sentence level," and I feel like at this point in the series she's having more and more fun with turns of phrase and little stylistic choices. Yeah, this series has been such a pleasure to read. 

Watching:

More BBT. We've made it to the Mayim Bialik era.

Writing/other:


We've been in Paris this week! T. had a conference, and I tagged along for a vacation. I find that traveling is always really overwhelming and overstimulating at first, and this trip was no different, but eventually I got my bearings. We didn't do much touristy sightseeing stuff--T. lived here for a while, so she's seen/done all that stuff, and I can't stand crowds and whatnot, especially in the heat--but we ate a lot of vegan food (some really good, some mediocre) and did some nice bebopping around. The conference organizers also planned an outing to this little playing card museum, which turned out to be really cool--especially the tarot exhibits. It's been a pleasant experience overall, but we're ready to go home. 

One thing that made me really excited though: so a while ago I discovered this RP board set in Paris in the late 1800s. It's the typical supernatural stuff, but I liked the idea of writing in that setting, so I dove in, adapting a couple characters of mine for that world. Unfortunately, the site was pretty inactive, so I sort of faded out after completing one thread and having another two left hanging. But then, after *months* of sitting there unresponded-to, an open thread I started got a reply! Right before we left for Paris! It felt serendipitous, and more than that, it made me really excited to retrace my characters' footsteps around the city. That was really fun, and it also helped me feel kind of grounded in Paris when we arrived. I shared some pics on the Discord server, and got excited to dive back into that world. Unfortunately, I quickly remembered why I kinda quiet quit in the first place. It's still pretty much just two people threading with each other, and very minimal OOC chatter. Just kinda...dead. It's a shame!

Anyway, this small experience made me realize a few things:

I've been *really* in my head about my "creative output" lately. Really feeling like I should be "putting myself out there" more, or at least trying to. I've got all these spoken word poems I've written--maybe I should try to turn them into a little book and get it published. Maybe I should build a website. Maybe I should make a zine.  Maybe I should try to make another webcomic, or pick up the one I dropped. Maybe maybe maybe. But I recognize that all of these impulses are based less in a need to create and share something I feel is "valuable," and more in a deep feeling of inadequacy, a need for perceived legitimacy, external validation, whatever. And I don't think there's anything necessarily wrong with wanting those things, and I think everyone who "puts their work out there" has a variety of motivations for doing so...but I don't feel great about the "neediness" of these impulses, and the shame-filled sense that I "should have something to show for myself" as a "creative" person nearing my mid-40s. I don't want to be driven by these impulses, and besides, when I actually think about doing any of the things I mentioned above, I feel kind of...heavy, resistant, gross. I'd like to explore those feelings more, but for now, I'm just noticing them.

On the other hand, when I got that reply to my months-old open thread, and when I got the idea to trace my character's walking routes around Paris, I got *so excited!* It made me think about the kind of creative work, and the kind of creative community, I enjoy and crave. I really like RPing, and I really like the idea/experience of creating something for--but also *with*--a small group of people. There are lots of other things I like about RPing, which I've already written about, but I guess for now I'm just noting the differences in my experiences/perceptions of "sharing my work" in these different ways. It's weird how the idea of publishing something--in a book, on a website, whatever--feels like both a way of gaining some kind of broader external validation and, at the same time, a kind of obscurity (i.e. a dusty book crammed on the bottom shelf of the poetry section in the local bookstore, along with countless others), while RPing, or writing fic in a niche fandom, feels both more obscure (at most, only a handful of people will read what I write) but also more nourishing and fulfilling (having fun, meaningful engagement with that handful of people).

More to think about here--and I sense I'm falling into some reductive black-and-white thinking (obviously trying to publish a book of poetry and RPing aren't mutually exclusive), or else missing/misunderstanding something basic and significant about the idea of making and sharing stuff, but for now, this is where my head is.


Write Every Day Day 29

Jun. 29th, 2025 12:49 am
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I tend to write the stories I want to read so…

1630 words on my Hazbin [community profile] wipbigbang mostly is meandering and off plot so we’ll see if I keep it. It’s mostly character dynamics stuff. I love doing that but I’m not sure it’s advancing the plot.

Let me know what day you’re reporting in for. If I've missed you on the tally let me know. Feel free to jump in at any time.

Day twenty -Seven [personal profile] cornerofmadness, [personal profile] sylvanwitch, [personal profile] lilly_c, [personal profile] badly_knitted, [personal profile] cmk418, [personal profile] trobadora, [personal profile] china_shop, [personal profile] carenejeans, [personal profile] shadaras, [personal profile] sanguinity, [personal profile] china_shop, [personal profile] the_siobhan, [personal profile] brithistorian, [personal profile] goddess47,



other days )

Been watching new Matlock with Jenn

Jun. 28th, 2025 07:49 pm
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The set and costume designers heard about blue-and-orange color schemes and just decided to run with it. I swear, they bought out everything blue in the store. Even the post-its are blue! And what isn't blue or teal is orange, or tan, or gold.

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I have regrets

Jun. 28th, 2025 10:55 pm
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So yesterday I cut out the saplings (elm and ash) from my garden. I've been fighting the for years. I didn't get a chance before I left and with all that rain, they are more than sixty percent of the garden and the poison ivy from across the way is now everywhere too. Two years ago one of my two roses was half dead and then all dead last year. this year my remaining rose is nearly dead. It'll be gone by next year.

So I came to the sad conclusion I have to strip the garden down to bare earth. I can't win this fight. My disability makes gardening hard enough. Removing a shit tons of stumps and poison ivy is a bit beyond me. I'm waiting for the fall because I CAN save the lilies and I do have a lot of them.


I've been having my exhaustion episodes. Today was so bad I woke up, tried to read, fell back to sleep. Could hardly stand until 1 in the afternoon. I did what I wanted to do, dug into my bedroom closet and I learned nothing from doing the same in the coat closet. At least this didn't take 4 days to undo the mess but the living room is barely passable and my bedroom is barely usable but I put four garbage bags of shoes/purses/belts/clothes in the car for donation. 1 garbage bag of unsalvable garbage removed. two more piles of t-shirts sorted (one I can wear as work shirts the other are ones I want to use to do quilts)

Why did I still have 6 pairs of high heels in there? (argued with my boomer father over them because he's sure a) I'm too old and fat to be attractive b) women wear them for men only and still wear them in spite of me telling him I spend all my days with young women and for the most part they do NOT wear them any more and there aren't that many for sale in stores these days)

Why do I have a sweatshirt from 1987?

Why do I keep so much junk?

Why does cleaning make me so ill. I DID wear my damn mask. My chest is tickling. I'm coughing. My throat is sore.

I also have three giant bags of manga in there for donation. I managed to get most of it back in the closet. You can't tell i took out 5 literal bags of shit. I'm ridiculous.


And I'm not going to clean all the things I wanted to between selecting that closet AND finally opening the utensil drawers to find out the mouse shit in them. Well fuck. Now I have to go get my gloves, bleach, a better mask, new drawer inserts, fire.... I could cry

One of the artists I like for Hazbin's computer died and they were doing a live VA thing with the people they do that with so I chipped in a few bucks. At least there is something I don't regret about today.

I even regret not holding Rocket who was so desperate to sit on me at the computer he managed to tear bloody ruts in my leg trying to get up on my lap.
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I saw this quote on Facebook from a social activist that I've been following, which stated:

"Do less of passing on your fears to people."

And I thought, if less people did this? I wouldn't have social anxiety or a lot of other anxieties for that matter - most of which have been thrust onto me by other people. People can be scary.

This quote is also apropos for the episode of Buffy that I re-watched this week, entitled (per Hulu) Gingerbread, S3 Episode 11. I think it's 11. It's not an episode that I remember fondly, and have been known to skip it on past re-watches. Mainly because it focuses on a recurring theme in horror/supernatural fiction - which is well - the witch hunt. It's been explored in a lot science fiction series as well, from Invasion of the Body Snatchers to the The Monsters Are Due on Maple Street" (a classic Twilight Zone Episode). And historically with the Salem Witch Trials and the Holocaust - where a group of people become scapegoats and people hunt them down and kill them as if they are demons or animals with no worth. I'm not fond of the theme - because, well, I find it frightening and incredibly frustrating, not to mention annoying, especially right now. I'd rather not think about it or watch it. Out of sight, is out of mind, right? Well unfortunately not always.

Also, I remembered Gingerbread being somewhat cliche and eye-rolling in places. (It's not. I was mistaken.)

I was surprised by how cleverly written this episode actually is, and how it manages to involve all of the main contracted cast, with the exception of Faith (who isn't a lead cast member and recurring).

It manages to take a well-known fairy tale and flips it on its head, in a way no one else has done before or since. What if the villains in the fairy tale were in reality the protagonists or victims, and they weren't what they seemed?

spoilers for well anyone who hasn't seen the show in the last 25 years and still wants to...when do spoilers expire anyhow, probably never? )

I found this episode, like all the other episodes in s3, to date rather well - and to cross-over well into the modern age, in that we've always had this problem. And it is an universal one. People get afraid of something or someone - and feel the need to tell everyone else about it - to share this anxiety or fear. Right now it's immigrants - and the fear that the immigrants will take away their jobs, their homes, and their way of life. Irrational as this fear is, they believe it is a real threat and they must fight to make sure it doesn't happen by any means necessary.

I once had a frightening debate with a poster named peasant in my journal way back in 2017. Peasant, a Brit, was convinced that the evil immigrants were coming to take away their job, home, and everything they held dear, and they had to stop them. That the evil socialists would help the evil immigrants. Fascism was better in Peasant's view than the alternative. And Capitalism was the best approach, everyone was happier under that. Peasant was terrified of socialism. Peasant's political views scared me, not just the views themselves, mind you, which were scary in of themselves, but the fact that someone actually thought that way? That they had demonized a group of people in their head to that extent. An otherwise rational and from what I saw kind person who cared about animals, gardened, etc - felt like this? That scared me. Peasant scared me, not the immigrants. I was afraid of Peasant. And I'm not an immigrant - my ancestors came to the United States in the 1600s, 1700s, and 1800s, both my parents, grand-parents, and for the most part great grandparents and great great grandparents are US Citizens. I was afraid for the immigrants, Peasant hated, and the their view that fascism was the better choice. That scared me. So badly, that I eventually blocked them from my journal.

Fear divides people and unites people - it also starts wars, and kills millions. It causes debilitating anxiety.

Peasant in attempting to pass their fears on to me, much like Joyce does to the other adults in town including Willow's mother - caused me to block them and ended our correspondence.

Another example? JK Rowlings fear of transgender has resulted in various people distancing themselves from her, and book stores no longer selling her books and removing them from their shelves. I don't see them at all in area book stores any longer. She has been deemed a lost cause, and repeals people with her hate and fear, and her attempts to pass it on to other people. Even those who agree with her, such as Musk, have attempted to reign her in on Twitter (aka X).

Passing fear on to others - may be rewarding in the short term, but it isn't in the long term. It did Joyce no favors - at the end of the episode, it is implied not shown by Buffy that Joyce has retreated to her gallery, and (potentially her booze), appalled at her actions, and her friends have disassociated themselves from her. This is shown with wry humor in the episode, but at the same time - as a kind of twisted morality lesson? Not to take things at face value, to question fears, and to try not to instigate a lynch mob.

Just one thing: 29 June 2025

Jun. 28th, 2025 06:40 pm
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It's challenge time!

Comment with Just One Thing you've accomplished in the last 24 hours or so. It doesn't have to be a hard thing, or even a thing that you think is particularly awesome. Just a thing that you did.

Feel free to share more than one thing if you're feeling particularly accomplished!

Extra credit: find someone in the comments and give them props for what they achieved!

Nothing is too big, too small, too strange or too cryptic. And in case you'd rather do this in private, anonymous comments are screened. I will only unscreen if you ask me to.

Go!

The Long Weekend

Jun. 28th, 2025 07:21 pm
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I have bought more dirt though I'm not sure if there will be further plant hijinks this weekend or not.

Back at the beginning of the month, it was announced that there was going to be a Gundam Pop-Up Shop this weekend down in Kentucky and I thought 'well that's only seven hours away' and took a day off- but got talked out of it and a closer location has since been announced... I kept the day off mostly because I've barely used any, the year is half-over, and an extra day off sounded nice. ^^;;

Worked out well because I'll admit that finding out my ancient site was finally going offline did throw me for a bit of a loop. Did I then spend the night frantically archiving? Nope. I finished up HG Sazabi, who is a seriously big boy filled with Yearning, and noodled with some other stuff. And sprawled on my bed and let a cross-breeze blow through my place...

Saturday was mostly fussing around, looking for notes and building a little non-Gundam kit from Sheik Mainland, called a Yunque. Cute little critter, and while I'm not without minor complaints, it was a good build. Started on Starfall, finally, after what, two months of being utterly intimidated?

Going to try to get through a bit of my inbox. It's amazing that no matter what I do, I just don't seem to get anywhere. But, I suppose, it's not getting actively worse, either?

May and June Recap (Not Work)

Jun. 28th, 2025 04:10 pm
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I sure have fallen out of the journaling habit.... Using the same headings and order as the last time:

Car
The dealership wants me to sell them my car (2021 Totoya Avalon Hybrid). I may answer them at some point, but they won't be happy. My terms are "Give me a similar 2026-model vehicle as its replacement, for only the cost of the trade-in plus whatever I still owe on the existing loan," which as of next week is just over $6,200. There's no way in hell they'll do it, so I'm comfortable making the offer... and if by some stroke of luck they do go for it because of their desperation, I get a new car for "nothing."

It had its semiannual maintenance visit last week. Took a little longer than I wanted but still ready by the time they promised and under the initial estimate (even after adding new wiper blades).

Food
The food I'm making is in the previous entry. I did have a trip to Texas de Brazil a week or so ago, and there's commentary in the "Vacations" section below about Chicago food.

Health
My health has been generally good. Itchy eyes from allergies, being careful in the heat (especially this past couple of weeks). Had some issues with billing from the physical therapy that finally got resolved. I'm supposed to be on the hook for the co-pay, but they screwed up and tried billing three or four of the 15 visits against worker's compensation (from the 2019 broken foot which I closed out in 2020) instead of my actual insurance, so when WC declined the hospital billed me the whole cost. I, as you might well understand, objected. They eventually fixed it but I had to call about it twice because their first fix didn't catch all of the misbilling.

Home
Nothing major to report. The new tree hasn't died yet, though a lot of the ivy in the front landscaping has (thanks in no small part to my applying poison semi-regularly). The garage door cable broke and I had to get it replaced. They're supposed to be power-washing the building this summer, and they're fixing the brickwork. The major road through here (the city's responsibility) got a chip seal. I think my own road (the association's responsibility) is gonna be completely redone next summer.

Vacations
Cleveland in April (CLAW) went well. Both of my workshops were well-received, though they were more lightly-attended than I'd've liked. We were in a new venue out by the airport (who were cold to us at the start, until they realized both that we drink a lot and that we tip well; they warmed up by the end of the weekend), but we may not be there next year because rumors are they'll stop being an event space and become a data center. We had multiple hotels out towards suburbia, which was problematic in and of itself; my hotel was pretty craptastic: the building was settling such that there was a noticeable deep crack in the ceiling and floor indicating imminent structural failure, it felt dirty, and after we left they were supposed to close for a major renovation... which it desperately needed. The off-site dungeon space was too small and had no parking or signage.

Chicago in May (IML) went well too. The hotel was as expected, my one volunteer shift went without any problems (though I got to shush some of the executive board who were being noisy in the quiet-for-contestant interviews area. Had fun in my trip up to Boystown. I ate well (including my annual visits to Girl and the Goat and Giordano's). I tried a new-to-me Chinese place near the hotel; the food was passable but the service was abysmal; I might give them another chance next year but haven't decided yet. The train rides in each direction were uneventful, though I don't care for the new Amtrak Siemens cars. The Amfleet were more comfortable and their café car more convenient.
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06272025-11

Ever since they re-opened Pier 62 to new event programs, I've been very impressed with the diverse array of events that Waterfront Park holds there. I only recently learned of the "Indigiqueer Festival," celebrating queerness and pride in Indigenous communities. I was subsequently surprised to learn that this has been an annual event there at least since 2022.

Part of that, I suppose, is that it gets scheduled on Friday of Seattle Pride weekend—and that means it overlaps with Trans Pride Seattle, which ever since 2022 has taken place as a festival at Volunteer Park on Capitol Hill. (Prior to that, it was at Cal Anderson Park, and included a march, which they have done away with ever since re-starting the event post-pandemic.) But, since Pier 62 is an easy walk from my office, I figured this year I could pretty easily check both of them out. And, since Shobhit wanted to get steps in anyway, he walked to meet me down there.

At first, he was going to meet at my office at 4:30. But then I decided I would leave early, at 4:00. My end of the office was a ghost town by 3:00, and yesterday was the first day all week that was not overwhelming with shit coming at me from all directions all day. I decided, fuck it, I'm leaving half an hour early!

I texted Shobhit to suggest we just meet at the pier and he was good with that. He wound up getting a couple of blocks past the pier to the north by the time we actually ran into each other. He had a cocktail made for me, and had already drank most of his own. I originally planned to take the cocktail to Trans Pride to drink with Laney, but Laney had to cancel: she tripped in a crosswalk and sprained her ankle. As I write this, I don't even know if she'll manage to meet up with me at PrideFest Capitol Hill as planned either. I'm kind of expecting she won't. At least this year Shobhit is not busy with work shifts, so we have the whole weekend together. He's even marching with SAG-AFTRA Seattle in the Pride Parade tomorrow, as part of the MLK Labor contingent, and I'm going to march with him. I marched in 2023 (part of Shobhit's Seattle City Council campaign), and watched last year; I'm okay with marching again, especially with no one else to watch it with this year as a spectator. (Laney doesn't tend to do the parade anymore, as I tthink it's too crowded for her.) Anyway, Shobhit said there was security at the entrance to Pier 62 and wasn't sure if we'd get our drinks in. I drank half mine but then we arrived, and I just put the tumbler bottle inside my backpack. Then the security people just waved us through the fencing.

So, we got there right at 4:30. The event page says it was from 1:00 to 8:00, but at 4:30, very little was going on—and we were on the pier only about half an hour. There were maybe 15 booths or tents set up, and not all of them for vendors—one, for instance, was the "Sensory Tent," for people seeking tranquility. No one was in there when it started raining for a few minutes, and Shobhit went inside to stay dry. I turned around one minute and then he was gone, but then he called me into the tent. It was very pink inside. And also a pretty nice place to pass ten minutes or so.

There were live performances scheduled for later in the evening, but none happening while we were there. If I try going again next year—PCC will be at the new office location by then, but that's actually closer to Pier 62 (0.6 miles versus 1 mile)—I may try better coordinating so that I get there a bit later in the evening. I might even go home first. Even home is only a mile from where the new office will be, albeit in the opposite direction.

Anyway! I still got an 18-shot photo album out of it, even if very few of the photos are all that interesting, thanks to so little actually happening (much like at Georgetown Pride last weekend). Thirteen of the shots were actually taken at the pier. I took a few more from the Overlook Walk when Shobhit and I walked up from there, either of the pier only, or wider shots the pier is either fully or partially in.

06272025-22

Shobhit had thought at first that he would want to walk from Pier 62 to Volunteer Park for Trans Pride—a 2.5-mile distance—but in the end, after having already walked a long way down to the waterfront, he changed his mind. We conveniently got to the bus stop at 4th & Pike only a few minutes before a #10 bus pulled up, and that bus goes straight up Pike and then Pine to Capitol Hill, and right to our building on 15th—but it also turns left on 15th and goes straight up to the east side of Volunteer Park. So, we just stayed on the bus and rode all the way up there.

I mentioned this last year, and I'm going to again here: Trans Pride Seattle is the only outdoor event, to my knowledge, still billing itself as "masks required," and I think it's stupid. There are signs all over the place among the lines of booths that say THIS IS A MASK REQUIRED EVENT, and Shobhit and I were among the maybe 5% of the people there who ignored them. Call us assholes if you want. I even sort of understand the argument that there is a lot of disability in the trans community, and that's the reason behind them having this policy. And it is well known that I am not nor have I ever been "anti-mask," and indeed to this day I wear masks on public transit, on airplanes and in crowded movie theaters. Hell, I even wore a mask when I went to see FI last night (once I was done with the chai I brought, anyway).

But those are all wildly different environments than an outdoor event at a park. It has been well known since the height of the pandemic that risk in outdoor spaces is minimal. Okay, sure, this event was much more crowded than most outdoor spaces, but I still operate in probabilities rather than possibilities. It may have been possible to transmit viruses, or even covid, at this event, but it was not especially likely.

It is also fair to observe that 95% of the people there had easy access to masks and wore them. It wasn't a hard thing to do. But I would still bet anything that they will be forced to abandon that policy sooner than later. Masks are basically over now. It's been five years. And yes, even I still wear masks in some places. But wearing them in outdoor spaces is something I just find really dumb. Half the people there were still taking masks off to eat or drink anyway, so, come on.

We happened upon the booth for the Seattle Gay News, which allowed me to pick up a hard copy of this weekend's edition—something I don't think I have done since I left that paper, at the age of 24, in 2000. It also has my byline in it for the first time since then, the first time in 25 years: a personal essay on what it meant to me to be at WorldPride Washington D.C. earlier this month. (I have already noted that all of that same writing was broken up and pasted, as photo captions, as well as expanded upon, in my travelogue about WorldPride.)

The bad blood between myself and George Bakan being such ancient history, and him having passed away five years ago, made it easy for me to be delighted to see my name in the paper again. My time there being in many ways a wound in my memory faded long ago, and the people there who resented the stunt I attempted to pull (organizing an attempted strike in 2000) are also long gone. Renee, pictured with me above, is now the publisher and has been for a year. She started as a freelance writer at SGN at the same time I worked there, many years before she transitioned. I can't even remember how long ago she did transition, but it was years ago, and we were already Facebook friends at the time.

She had suggested I send some of my photos and maybe even write up something about my experience at World Pride, and so I did. I did not expect it to be so easy to get the piece published, basically with notable copy editing changes that I can find. I even sent in a couple of my own copy editing changes after initially submitting it, and even those changes were incorporated.

So Shobhit and I chatted with Renee for several minutes, and I asked to get a photo with her, holding up my piece in the paper. Shobhit took three photos with my phone, and SGN had their own photographer at the booth, who took their own, much higher-quality photo.

Renee always seems happy to see me, which is nice. And she encouraged me to submit any other writing I might like to. We'll see about that. Maybe. Either way it was nice to see her. She also got a chance to speak briefly on the amphitheater stage a little while later.

Shobhit and I made the rounds to all the booths. With Laney, we likely would have found a spot to sit in the grass for a while, and watch some of the entertainment. This year I got just this one brief video clip of a lip sync performance. Otherwise we just walked the booths, and actually, that helped me get more photos than I might otherwise have gotten. This year's Trans Pride Seattle photo album has a total of 31 shots in it, six fewer than last year but far from the smallest number I have ever gotten. Anyway, Shobhit spent some time at the UW Medicine booth, where he found out their contract with Aetna ended, so that sucks—we can't switch. We're stuck with a medical center that is affiliated with a church, and I hate that. Also a guy at that booth kept saying, "Would you like a mask?" No, not really. I did take one of the rainbow masks, but just walked away.

We were there from about 5:45 to 6:45, so only about an hour. We caught another bus back home on 15th Avenue. I put on my rainbow mask to get on the bus, but as a standard medical mask it felt pointless and so I switched it for one of my KN95 masks.

Anyway, I'm still really glad I went, as always. I haven't missed a single year of Trans Pride Seattle since 2015. It's important to me. I'm just ready for them to get rid of that mask policy, which I figure they will do within the next few years. Even Renee, while trying to chat with us, removed her mask, saying, "You don't have masks, I'm going to take mine off." (I guess we're bad influences.) She made it pretty clear they were only wearing them because of official policy for vendors at the event, even though probably a good third of the vendors at booths either had no masks on or their masks were hanging below their chin or off the sides of their faces.

Anyway, Shobhit and I are going to take a long walk now, before we later head up to the Capitol Hill PrideFest on Broadway. In the meantime I will close with this button, the coolest thing I saw at Trans Pride Seattle this year.

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Jun. 28th, 2025 03:50 pm
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Finally, LJ seems to be back to normal.

It was still pleasantly cool(ish) this morning although the humidity was very high; it felt like it was close to 100%. We'd had a small amount of rain overnight, but not enough to create large puddles on the parkrun course so I went to parkrun. There was a woman there wearing a Monash University running shirt; Monash University is in Melbourne, Australia, so I asked her if she was Australian and she was. We didn't really get to talk because parkrun was about to start, and she finished well ahead of me so I didn't see her afterwards either. I'm hoping she shows up again sometime because I'd like to chat more. (To hear the accent :)

Food pr0n: Mastaccioli

Jun. 28th, 2025 03:25 pm
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Of late I haven't gotten too far out of my food rut. I've been making the maple-dijon chicken with rosemary a lot, the lemon-artichoke chicken less frequently, and the occasional precooked BBQ ribs or from-frozen chicken cordon bleu. I had a lot of fresh corn on the cob in late spring. Lunches have mostly been sandwiches of some sort at home, usually one of corned beef, ham, pastrami, or turkey with Swiss cheese, though sometimes it'll be PB&J or an open-faced tuna melt. Also, every week or two, including lunch yesterday, I'll grab takeout sushi from the nearby place who have a lunch special (three 8-piece rolls — California, spicy salmon, and spicy tuna — for $20 with tax and tip).

For dinner tonight I made mastaccioli again. I was in the mood for Italian, I had a jar of marinara open, and it wasn't too much trouble to add an onion, the penne rigate, bulk sausage, and ground beef to my grocery order. It's simmering on the stove as I type.

Ingredients
  • 1 lb. bulk Italian hot sausage
  • 1 lb. bulk Italian sweet sausage
  • 1 lb. ground beef
  • ¾ lb. white or Vidalia onion, chopped fine
  • 8–10 cloves of garlic, minced
  • 1 tbsp. dried basil
  • ½ tbsp. dried marjoram
  • 1 tbsp. dried oregano
  • 1 tbsp. onion powder
  • 1 tsp. freshly ground black pepper
  • 3¾ lb. marinara sauce
  • 29 oz. diced fire roasted tomatoes (with their juice)
  • 6 oz. tomato paste
  • ¼ cup molasses
  • 1 lb. penne rigate
Mise en place
  1. Dice the onion and put it in a bowl.
  2. Mince the garlic and add to the bowl with the onion.
  3. Measure out all the herbs and spices and put them in another bowl.
Directions
  1. In a 10- or 12-qt. stockpot, brown the sausage and ground beef.
  2. Add the herbs and spices. Mix to combine.
  3. Once the spices have started to toast a little, add the onion and garlic. Mix to combine.
  4. Once the onions have started to soften, add the marinara sauce, tomatoes, tomato paste, and molasses. Mix to combine.
  5. Bring to a simmer.
  6. Add the pasta. Mix to combine. Make sure all of the pasta is submerged in the sauce.
  7. Reduce heat and simmer for at least an hour until the pasta is tender. Check every 15–20 minutes and thin the sauce out with more tomato sauce or beef stock if it's too thick or starting to char.
Serve once the pasta is al dente. I usually top mine with grated Parmesan and Romano cheeses.

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