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I agree with the rest of the gang - just go and enjoy yourselves without trying to make things overly complicated. At this time of year especially, the simpler you can make things, usually the better! that way, if you can make a surprise visit (or a call 1 hour before you plan to get there visit just in case it isn't a good time to visit for them) it will be a complete bonus and no one will feel stressed or upset if things don't go perfectly smoothly and according to the requisite time-table.