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I know some of it, I think, but I believe mostly from bits I';ve picked up here and there- often in comments; I don't know that I've read a narrative. Not that I need to!

I don't think I've done a comprehensive narrative of the issue myself; I've shared bits. And for me- I don't know that I'd want to try the comprehensive; As I said, I am not a forgiveness fan (one of the reasons I'm pagan), and I AM bitter. Mostly, though, I don't think about them and so the bitterness is not affecting my daily life. However, when people try to pressure me into forgiveness- saying it's more about ME than them- I get pretty bitter and pissed off. I know it works well for many; it is not the Universal Solution.

*hugs*