i can't even with this story. holy shit. <3 i'm so sorry your mother did that to you. it's AWFUL.

i had a decent experience with Chase when i got divorced; they separated everything in half and made accounts for my soon-to-be ex husband and me. the account manager was very helpful and kid; i was sobbing my guts out, so i remember it. but a few bank scandals later and i went to a local credit union. i'll never use a bank again.